Marriage Palava with Mr. Exponent (Season 3)

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If you miss season two of marriage palava with ME, go here 

So today, my mission is straight forward. I want to change some girls/ladies mind-set who believe in the idea that their boyfriends 'must' be responsible for their life especially their financial needs. Do you know that most girls that are too demanding on their guy always end up victims of heartbreak?

In my 'exponential' or experiential opinion, girls or ladies who don't ask for much from their dudes deserve it all! They are much more respected and loved compared to their counterparts. They are more than a girl friend or call it ‘side chick’ or mistress, they are a wife material!

Hey, you-are you a girlfriend material or a wife material? I leave you with your conscience. Only you and you knew the motive behind your 'yes' to his proposal in the first place.

Ok, maybe some girls don't know this truth: Most guys will respect you more (especially that guy-your boyfriend) if he sees that you hardly demand from him except as he his 'led' to give you from his heart.

It's quite unfortunate that the girls of the 21st century are getting it all wrong, thinking that once they are hooked to a man, the next thing is to transfer their life's problems, plans and pursuits and financial needs to him. 'Now that he has decided to date me, he should be ready to spend on me. After all, he is my baby, my bloke. He should be able to provide and hustle for my needs'.

Excuse me sister, is he your father, your brother, your uncle or your guardian? Why drain his pocket dry? Are you a gold digger? Oh, you are a leaner abi? Na only you waka come this planet earth? Na you fine pass abi? Without you in his life he won't be able to get married again ba? Sorry to say o, you be Ole Barawo! You are not been considereate.

That guy is not yet married to you, he is your husband-in-transit or maybe not. Until you are married to him, don't over burden him with your life and family issues so that he will not go drain his bank account on top the idea that he want to truly profess his love to you. He has problems as much as you do. God help him, he is even the eldest son in his own family too. He has needs his current financial strength is probably incapable of solving too. He needs money and other things money can and can't buy as much as you do.

But my lady, you are the one that keep complaining that he is yet to propose to you, yet you are not given him the room to believe that you in, not just in the relationship to drain his pocket and run away. God help you he is a smart guy that understands the game so well. Na that time you go no say women are indeed weaker vessels.

If you care to know, your 'serial' relationship that is yet to put that seemingly small ‘handcuff’ called engagement ring into your left finger may be as a result of the fact that you appear too shoking, uninteresting, boring, unattractive, demanding and desperate!

Most men want a lady as their wife that won't be too concerned about her good (comfort) alone in the relationship, they want a woman that even if she doesn't have to give, her words of encouragement, understanding and empathetic behaviour, goodly and Godly character and kind-heartedness are soothing and reassuring.

To you single lady that is fast becoming an executive single now only attracted to cheating married men, still telling God to bring her husband her way, are you a wife material (asset) or a knife material (liability)?

Oya, answer.

--Exponent Samuel Adu
Primus inter pares...first amongst equals
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