CONFIDENCE AND SELF-LOVE

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The #love of #self is the beginning of #confidence and #outspokenness

How you see yourself is the same way others around you will see you. The value you place on yourself is directly proportional to the value people (family, friends, neighbours, acquaintances, superior, subordinate, bosses etc) will place on you.

Just like a calabash, the way you carry yourself is the same way people will carry you. Low self esteem is simple undervaluing the perfect work of God's creation. You are simply validating the assumption that God made mistake when forming you in your mother's womb. Your confidence level has simply gone deficit. 

Actually, when you compare yourself to others, you love yourself worth, you loose your value and confidence drops.

For all I know, every successful people are confidence and expressive people. They are first, lovers of themselves. There is this aura around them that validates #selflove. They are never intimidated nor look down in themselves.

How confident are you? Do you love yourself?
If you don't love yourself, how will you give love to others? 

The golden rule is clear: Love your neighbour as yourself - Bible.

Remember, you are the architect of your own #destiny. You owe no body your life. And no body owes you anything. Casting blame game and complaining only explain your pain to no gain.

Just be happy and be at #peace with yourself and exude confidence.

Problems no dey finish. You can't even pray it away. Not in this Buhari's government. You better live and let's live. Lol.

This week, work and walk with 50-50 shoulder pad like you've won a jackpot. Let people wonder what is going on with you. I said what I said😁

Happy New Week.

#selflove #fortheloveofself #esteem #confidence #happynewweek

@Samuel Adu
Mr. Exponent
Primus inter pares... first amongst equals
www.mrexponent.blogspot.com
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